Sonuvabitch

Ever known one of those individuals you could group into that small class of people known as a “sonuvabitch?” Maybe it is a co-worker, manager, someone driving down the highway or even a friend. Well I have the the fortunate opportunity to know one of these individuals and at times can make things I am trying to accomplish very difficult.

While the intentions of this sonuvabitch are probably good, the way delivery and follow up leave much to be desired. Another characteristic of this individual is the nature in which situation as are controlled. Wait. That doesn’t do the situation justice. “Micro managed” is not overstating the fact this individual has when a situation arises and must be resolved.

It’s a very difficult relationship at times. When everything in life is going well the relationship can be enjoyable…at times. But when the tables turn, look out. That is when this mild mannered individual becomes an out of control pompous, arrogant sonuvabitch. It’s not only the actions everyone sees, but how communication is directed and controlled. Instead of talking to you, this person is talking down to you. At times it goes so far as to ordering you.

I am sure we all have someone like this in our lives. Like it or not we must deal with this individuals with “kid gloves” not only during the rough times, but during the good times as well. While I have no resolution to the situation, we must do what we can within our control to manage this relationship and remain “calm, cool and collected.”